Saturday, March 12, 2011

Home Schooling - Concept Of Change


The Reason - Hoobastank

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The following is in the cases of non-self motivation
toward that which is necessary 
for a better life.

The three major unjustifiable excuses
to avoid change
(for the better)...

Rationalization of present state of being
(not believing a better way or how to do exists)

Procrastination
(knowing existence of better way...
too comfortable in present state...
short term thinking)

Fear of unknown
(including physical and psychological pain)


The most powerful progenitor of change is
demonstrated success.

True Leadership 
(which parents must live)
is having a correct plan of action...
that which has been correctly prioritized
and in its most efficient and effective form
and can be demonstratively shown to be true...
through life examples or through a clear vision 
of what is, and what is to be, with the plan incorporated
and how it all blends in with the master plan
(Reverse Plan for success in their endeavor).

Using critical reasoning...
with a correctly laid out plan of action..
you may overcome the false rationalization excuse.

Through daily guidance to establish new habits
(rigid adherence to the plan...no invalid excuses accepted)
Procrastination is a moot point.

Having the change coming in easily digestible bites...
of having clearly laid out and easily obtained objectives...
and the goal ever in sight...
the initial pain is manageable.


The best scenario of all...

is through your demonstrated love of your child
throughout his life...
he becomes trusting and open to new ideas...
he truly listens...
to wish to please those whom he loves...
and whom loves him the most.

Through your teaching of...
 right and wrong...
he wishes to do right.

Through your teaching of...
Critical Reasoning...
he will be able to see rationally...
that which is correct and reasonable...
that which is best for his future.

Through great encouragement of his achievements
and gentle correction to keep him within the 
parameters of the planned structure
and engineered plan of success...
to have him have the staying force
necessary to effect the change to fruition 
and ultimately to success
(nothing breeds success like true success)
he will have entered a Positive Spiral
(The goal is to put him into a Positive Spiral...
a self driven positive mode of operation).

It will then become an inner drive.

For those not having read the article:
Positive Reinforcement - Positive Spiral
please look in the archives...
June 2010.

The detailed explanation of this concept is illustrated.
The full understanding and application of it...
vital.

As with any change...
it is best to start as early as possible...
before any negative habits are entrenched.

Your goal is to have them walk the correct path
from the beginning.

This will involve research and proper planning
on your part.

Remember two major points:

Make positive plans encompassing
 all the aspects of humans...
Intellectual
Emotional
Physical

The change must eventually come from within
if it is to be a way of life.

To achieve this...
it must be applied at a rate necessary 
to effect the change
and for long enough to make it a habit...
to see it through fruition.


With what you learn..
you may teach your children...
so they may teach theirs.

It all starts, and ends, with true love 
for your child.








2 comments:

  1. There is alot of truth to this. If only we could keep procrastination from showing up and interfering with our intention. Yes... that is why love is so important, we do what we know is best for our child regardless of our weaknesses. It takes time, yet the result is infinitely superior to any sacrifice given.

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